Our Real Enemy

ALL Christians face spiritual warfare. Some may not be aware of who actually is opposing them, and they end up taking offense and despising the people they ought to love. If we are not wise and equipped with minds renewed daily upon God’s Word we are easy prey to our enemy’s schemes and will believe that people are our enemy. In reality, all of humankind is under the sway of this masterful deceiver[1] in some way. Satan’s purpose is ONLY to steal, kill and destroy you[2].

What are your first thoughts when you wake up in the morning and there’s darkness present? Perhaps a bad dream resulting from the past. Where do you think these dark feelings come from? Certainly not from your loving Father who said He would cast our forgiven sins far from us and not bring them before us again. Of course, it would be from the oppressor, the enemy, who would like to rob you of the abundant life that Jesus promises to His own.

eyes-730750__480Be sure that when you are encountering these dark moments of fear, discouragement, shame or confusion, all of this is rooted in the strategy of Satan to cause you to doubt God and live in unbelief. Recognizing this and then going to God’s Word to renew your mind, and strengthen your soul, is the proper response. What did Paul tell us we should do daily in order to equip ourselves for these attacks? Ephesians 6:11-12Put on the whole armor of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places”. Go on to read and study verses 14-17 to learn what the armor of God is.

When I consider how much training goes into equipping the military for earthy battles, let us consider the daily onslaught from hell that we face — it is very real. We need to be equipped and ready to recognize the battle we are in. We need to be careful not to involve ourselves in unnecessary skirmishes to the neglect of the real spiritual battle we’re in. We can be sidetracked fighting temporal situations and people, instead of the one God has declared to be our real enemy.

I Peter 5:8-9 Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walks about, seeking whom he may devour: whom resist steadfast in the faith, knowing that the same afflictions are accomplished in your brethren that are in the world.

Prayer is the needful, consistent, daily exchange between us and our Father. He desires to guide us and glorify Himself through us. To be useful in His Kingdom and overcome our enemy, we must communicate and hear from God, our Chief and Commander. A good soldier heeds what He says and does it. We must equip ourselves with spiritual armor (Eph. 6:10-18) against this enemy; remember he is a subtle deceiver, not easy to recognize. Our victory against Satan is firmly planted in Christ’s victory over death, hell, and the grave at Calvary; Christ earned this position for us and He is greater than our foe.

A song written by Martin Luther about 500 years ago, A Mighty Fortress is Our God, describes this battle. Here is verse one of this hymn. Powerful songs like this have kept believers strong in faith and action. May we recognize the enemy’s craft and respond in the power of the Holy Spirit.

  1. A mighty fortress is our God, a bulwark never failing; our helper he amid the flood of mortal ills prevailing.
    For still our ancient foe doth seek to work us woe; his craft and power are great, and armed with cruel hate, on earth is not his equal.

[1] 2 Corinthians 4:3-4 But if our gospel be hidden, it is hidden to them that are lost: In whom the god of this world hath blinded the minds of them which believe not, lest the light of the glorious gospel of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine unto them.

[2] John 10:10 The thief cometh not, but for to steal, and to kill, and to destroy: I have come that they might have life and that they might have it more abundantly.

May you RECOGNIZE your real enemy and RESPOND according to the Instruction Manual. 

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What is Biblical Counseling?

Biblical Counseling is using God’s Word (the Bible) as the foundational manual from which to answer every question and concern in a Christian’s life. It is discipleship and the process of growing in wisdom, understanding and application of the Word of God to our life. Whatever our situation is, God has provided an answer and remedy for us.

His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence, by which he has granted to us his precious and very great promises, so that through them you may become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped from the corruption that is in the world because of sinful desire. (II Peter 1:3-4 ESV)

Our knowledge of God and man comes directly from His Word and when we allow the Holy Spirit to indwell us, He gives us the power to become partakers of God’s nature over our sinful nature. As Christ pleased the Father, we may also as we desire to glorify mind-2197437__480God through our lives. In order to do this, we need to change our thoughts that are contrary to God’s Word. He helps us with this. God’s Word is capable of restructuring our thought patterns as we choose to renew our minds daily, desire to have the mind of Christ and walk in obedience to His teachings.

And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God. (Rom 12:2 ESV)

Put off  your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness. (Eph 4:23 ESV).

This means our thinking will change and become pleasing to God in accordance with His desires for us. He always has our best interests in mind and as we submit ourselves to His instruction a beautiful transformation occurs. This is where a biblical counselor is helpful in this process providing assignments that will help someone think in a healthy God-ordained way. The result we want to achieve is to THINK – DO – FEEL, in that order.

The process of change in us is made possible by Christ’s sacrifice for sin, the power of the Holy Spirit and God’s Word at work in our hearts. The threefold process is: we discard old patterns of ungodly behavior, reconstruct our thinking based upon God’s Word, and adopt new patterns of godly behavior.[1]

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In summary, biblical counselors work with people to apply God’s Word as the solution to man’s fallen condition (Genesis 3). Our Creator knows us inside and out and offers us hope in any situation.

Credit: Much of the information I am sharing here comes from my studies in the book: [1] Curing the Heart by Howard Eyrich and William Hines 2002.

Resources: Insightful Testimony (11 min.) by Heath Lambert of childhood abuse he suffered and God’s redemptive work in his life; Heath is the Director of ACBC (Association of Certified Biblical Counselors). Discussion on “Differences and Overlap of Biblical Counseling and Clinical Therapy” (80 min.) by Heath Lambert.

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Guilt & Shame

My heart goes out to anyone living in relationship with someone who is carrying a load of guilt and shame. It is a heavy load that weighs people down. Sometimes it is loaded on because of the sin against us by someone else and we carry the offense. Other times it comes from our own sinful condition or our perception of the situation we’re in. There can be many reasons for it.

For people in this struggle, self-protection can grow into an obsession. It takes precedence over everything, and relationships suffer greatly.

If you live with, or interact closely with someone living with guilt and shame you can understand how difficult it is to interact with them.  Normal questions and conversations are virtually impossible. A defensive posture is the norm — the inability to express to them a complete thought without interruption, accusation, anger, or disrespect is commonplace.

Understand that the conflict the guilty soul feels is great because the person wanting to help them is usually someone who offers love to them and has already demonstrated much care for them; therefore they are conflicted between a sense of duty to respond rightly versus self-protection. This brings confusion in because one day things can go seemingly well and the next very badly. It’s understandable why many give up in attempting loving confrontation. It is often because of our own failure to consistently love or the abusive responses becoming to painful to bear, or both.

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Exposed!

bridge-19513__480Imagine with me someone who was imprisoned underground away from any light for a long period of time. What would happen if you took them and suddenly transported them onto a bright sunny lawn? They would cringe, withdraw, every part would ache and try to run to shade for some relief. Bringing someone out of a life of darkness and pain takes time. The one thing we can offer someone who’s suffered in a prison of pain is HOPE.

Hope is the antithesis of darkness and despair – and it doesn’t bring the pain that exposure does. Hope is gentle and kind, like love.  Hope says, “Don’t worry, things can change. It will take time, but you can be free to experience love, faith, peace, and freedom.

I Cor. 13 tells us that charity (or love) covers like a blanket, protecting us while we cold-2722002__480move from darkness to light. It allows us to gradually see again. God’s love demonstrated to us, usually through people, allows for transition. We are not cast from a dark underground cell of pain and sin into the street of exposure — unlike those who brought the woman caught in the act of adultery into the village square and threw her at Jesus feet for judgment (John 8:3-5).

We can be like those men – it’s our human nature to expose others for their sin. We’ve all done it. Knowingly or not, we have cast people into the street for judgment. The men who threw her at the feet of Jesus were guilty themselves. They wanted to see what He would do with her, a sinner — this woman caught in the act of adultery. Our pride blinds us to God’s ways. Jesus wrote something in the dirt, and the men began to leave. Then He said, Woman, where are those accusers of yours? Has no one condemned you?” 11 She said, “No man, Lord.” And Jesus said unto her, “Neither do I condemn you: go, and sin no more”. 12 Then Jesus spoke to them again, saying, “I am the light of the world. He who follows Me shall not walk in darkness, but have the light of life.” (John 8:10-12 NKJV).

Jesus’ manner caused the Pharisees much turmoil. They were religious, filled with pride and did not understand relationship with God. “Who is he, that he can forgive sin!” they thought and questioned (John Chapters 9 and 10). Little did they know.

SUFFERING

We all will face trials and suffering in our world because of sin present in mankind, whether directly or indirectly: because of your sin toward others, theirs toward you, or simply because of our response to pain.

bucharest-1280226__480While in Romania this fall, I visited Ceausescu’s Palace. Once called the People’s House, today it is known as The Palace of the Parliament (the largest administrative building in the world). The Wumbrand’s were a family who knew what it was to suffer at the hands of another, yet God cared and demonstrated His love to them in the midst of suffering. Pastor Richard Wumbrand was held in solitary confinement130704_wurmbrand for 3 years during his 14 years in communist prisons. He spent time in a solitary cell in the basement of this “palace”, tortured for His faith in Jesus Christ, as they attempted to get him to renounce Christ and accept the state religion of Communism as his “Savior” — but he would not. I have a video of him made years later when he returned to the dungeon cell. God—the Holy Spirit and His angels–ministered to Richard there. He was pale, starving and beaten. If someone would have taken him from the underground cell and suddenly cast him upon the huge lawn that surrounds the palace, he certainly would have recoiled from the exposure to light, something he had been deprived of for so long.

Have you been in a place of suffering? Perhaps silently, others may not be aware of it, but the pain is very real. God extends His love to you, which may be difficult for you to recieve if you have suffered in a religious enviroment. Recognize that you have a choice in the matter of how you respond to suffering.

THE BATTLE

Satan hates you. He is the author of every dark place in life – bar none. When sin entered our world, with it came death, disease, destruction and every sort of wickedness man could conceive. Satan hates God and is constantly prowling like a lion, looking for those he can tempt and pull into sin. Sin unchecked, unrepented of, eventually becomes a stronghold and then a bondage difficult to escape. It takes many forms yet generally it is seen two ways: destruction of self or of those around you, sometimes both.

Several years ago I needed to walk out of a dark place in my life. Dear friends were desiring to help me, through a counseling process, into the light of freedom. It was very painful and It was not easy to move from the place where I had developed my cocoon of safety. I was deeply wounded from years of deception, fear and confusion that took me to a cavern of sorts – even though it seemed light at times. It was a gradual process, nothing sudden; like the frog in the water pot, things happened and changed and yet I did not realize what was happening until years later upon exposure. By God’s grace I was preserved, kept in His care.

Over time, the dark place in our life can become our normal; we learn to adjust and function there. But is it a place of freedom? That is an important question to ask yourself. God’s desire for each person he created is freedom, not bondage. Satan is the author of bondage. Jesus sacrificed, suffered, was crucified, died and was buried for us — for our sin. Satan was glad to see his nemesis crucified. BUT then something happened. . . the bonds of death could not hold Him in the grave. The earth shook, and the grave opened and He was free, He rose from the dead! Jesus became our example in overcoming Satan and his intentions. Death could not hold Him — He is our resurrected Savior and King! Helove-699480__480 now offers this victorius LIFE to us. He was not a victim of Satan’s plans, nor are we.

Freedom from the bondage of sin in any form – even subtle self-protective pride, fear of man, fear of the future — these can all be renounced and freedom can be embraced through surrender to Christ and His Lordship.  He is a precious, wonderful caring Savior. And He desires relationship with you.

HIS LIGHT

Jesus wants to bring you to the light, but he will not expose you in a harmful way. He wants to cover you with a blanket and cleanse you from every sin. He offers kindness and love to you, not harshness and high demands.  He knows all about your brokenness and pain. He truly understands everything you have experienced. There is no shame or guilt that he cannot take and turn into peace and safety. Willread-1188585__480 you trust Him? Allow Him to show you the abundant life He offers? His Word will restructure your thoughts. You don’t have to hold on to old patterns of thinking that are wrong. God wants to instruct you in the way of life, as well as expose the enemy, Satan, for the wicked devil that he is.

If you want to make a difference in our world – to accomplish justice — it will not come through the kingdom of this World, but rather through God’s Kingdom. Learn to wage war there – not a war of guns and violence, but of submission to God’s power and authority. God’s ability to turn a king’s heart, a nation, and our lives is unlimited. Our choice is to cooperate —  we decide whether we will surrender or not to His ways. When we belong to Him, His love compels us to obey Him. I John 5:3 says, “Loving God means keeping his commandments, and his commandments are not burdensome”  (NLT).

Let us humble ourselves and recognize our need of God to govern in our lives, nation, and world. We need to recognize our position before our Creator God — we deserve nothing and He deserves everything.  He alone is worthy of all our praise and worship. Jesus warned that he did not come to bring peace but a sword (Mt. 10:34) and this severing from the world involves leaving some things behind that we previously loved about ourselves — wrong thinking for one. When Christ returns it will be a terrible day for many, and men’s hearts will fail them for fear (Luke 21:26). Once this period of grace is up, He will judge all people in righteousness and judgment (Rom. 2:5-7, Rev. 20:11-15). Tuck yourself in with Him. He desires to throw the blanket of His love and forgiveness around you and then grow you into His image. Decide to seek Him. We do not know the number of our days and if this will be our last.

Are you ready to be exposed to the Light of heaven? Are you living in a dark place and the Light will cause you to recoil and hide instead of embracing Him? If so, choose life today — find someone who is living in relationship with Christ that can help you find your way to Him. HOPE awaits you.

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Now what? When loving care is exhausted…

What do you do when you see someone you love and care about heading down the wrong road?

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1) ASK for guidance from the Lord. Hold on to what the Holy Spirit shows you in the midst of prayer and His Word. Psalm 63:1-3 (KJV).

2) DISCERN if you should speak or hold your peace. Discerning when and what to say is important. Prov. 9:9 (KJV).

3) PRAY always and sometimes with fasting. Mark 9:29 (KJV): 2So He said to them, “This kind can come out by nothing but prayer and fasting.”

Prayer prepares our hearts with the heart of God toward grace and mercy for all. Through fasting we overcome our flesh and rise to a place of power with God to overcome self and the works of the Devil. Deliverance comes in the spiritual realm. We are dealing with demonic workers of iniquity. Christ knew their power and our weakness in the flesh.

Keeping ourselves daily in God’s Word and prayer will give us guidance in these matters. We should also rely upon the authorities God has provided both in our church and/or civil government.
Note: This was primarily written for those situations that do not require the involvement of civil authority as proscribed in Rom. 13:3-6. If this is warranted, then as a Christian the situation should be brought into the light (I John 1:7) for necessary correction and consequences. Consult with your pastor, a solid Christian friend or leader, if you are uncertain about matters that are questionable. There are many more verses to be considered when it comes to knowing how to respond, such as Hebrews 12:12-14 (KJV) and your pastor should be able to guide you. A Biblical Counselor can be an additional resource.

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